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Insights
Reflections on identity, transition, and midlife from My Era — for women recognizing who they've become and designing what's next.
Reflections & Insights


Why Your Life Looks Good on Paper but Feels Off
You built this life on purpose. Here's why it can still feel like it belongs to someone you used to be.
Sep 43 min read


The Emotional Burden of Self-Improvement: When Growth Becomes Exhausting
When trying to grow starts to feel like another job, it's worth asking whether you're moving toward curiosity or away from a feeling that you're not enough.
Sep 23 min read


Why Is It So Hard to Ask for Help? The Hidden Cost of Hyper-Independence
Being the woman who can handle everything feels like a strength, until it starts to feel like a requirement. Sometimes the hardest part of asking for help is loosening an identity built around never needing it.
Aug 314 min read


How to Make Friends as an Adult When Your Life Has Changed
I used to think losing touch with people just happened. Then I started asking why the friendships that once came so easily kept disappearing, and what it actually takes to build new ones now.
Aug 294 min read


AI Took My Job. Now What? Rebuilding Your Identity After Job Loss
Losing a job to AI isn't only a career disruption. It can surface a quieter question about who you are once the title is gone, one a new resume can't answer on its own.
Aug 274 min read


Who You Became to Survive Does Not Have to Be Who You Are
Some parts of you were built for a season that required them. You can appreciate how they protected you without assuming they still need to lead your life.
Aug 254 min read


Losing Yourself in Motherhood: How to Feel Like You Again
You can love being a mother and still realize that somewhere between school schedules, work, activities, and taking care of everyone else, you stopped making much room for yourself. That realization is not a rejection of motherhood. It may be an invitation to pay attention.
Aug 213 min read


Why I'm Only Taking 6–10 Women in My First Coaching Cohort
I'm intentionally limiting the first My Era coaching cohort to 6–10 women. Keeping it small creates room for women to be known, participate honestly, and help shape the experience as My Era grows.
Aug 213 min read


Identity in Your 30s: I Thought Having It All Would Feel Different
I have so much of the life I wanted, and I’m proud of what I’ve built. But somewhere between having it all and doing it all, I started wondering where I fit into the life I’m working so hard to hold together.
Aug 204 min read
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